Originally from Florida, Nicole found herself in a difficult situation in San Francisco. Struggling with addiction and trapped in an abusive relationship, she made the courageous decision to pack her bags and seek help. “I’m a very stubborn person when it comes to asking for help. But it’s definitely helped me come out of my comfort zone and reach out,” Nicole reflects.
Nicole’s path to recovery began with a detox program, followed by a 90-day rehabilitation program. It was during this step-down program that she met Shay from Back on My Feet (BoMF). In desperate need of community support, Nicole joined BoMF and found the encouragement she needed to stay sober and transition into permanent housing. “Back on My Feet has been amazing in helping me restore my life,” she says.
As a dedicated member, Nicole participates in as many BoMF activities as possible, including Circle Ups and workshops like Dress for Success, where she received a gift card to purchase work attire. These experiences have provided her with motivation and a renewed sense of purpose. “It helps me stay clean and sober,” Nicole shares.
Nicole’s journey hasn’t been easy, but her accomplishments are a testament to her perseverance and resilience. She is particularly proud of her awareness and ability to recognize warning signs before they lead to relapse. “Awareness has made me the most proud of myself because I am able to catch myself before I wreck myself. I have a great safety plan and I know all my warning signs,” she explains.
Nicole’s favorite memory with BoMF is a kickball event where she met other people in recovery. “I’ve always been kind of a loner, so it’s hard for me when I need to walk into a crowd of new people. It definitely gave me the ability to walk in with confidence. I met a lot of people and talked to a lot of people, and it was inspirational. I left feeling good.”
Looking ahead, Nicole has big plans. An artist at heart, she is starting a jewelry-making business and working on a website to showcase her creations. Ultimately, she hopes to work in rehab and help others on their journey to recovery. “I don’t want to stay in the restaurant industry until I’m 60. I think it would lead to a relapse. I want to work in rehab and help people,” Nicole shares.
Nicole’s advice to new members is simple yet powerful: “Ask for help! Don’t feel like you can’t ask. There are people who actually want to help you.” Her journey is a shining example of how making the choice to seek help can lead to a brighter, healthier future.
